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I love this - I needed to hear every word, thank you.

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Loved this episode! I heard a tiktok (sorry I don't have the author) where someone was explaining about echoists ('believes that other people's needs and happiness come before their own') and that these people usually form these traits due to being in the care of someone narcissistic. I identified with this. But they went on to explain that these could be two ends of the same spectrum, one end the narcissist, the other end the echoist. This was so helpful for me to move from being the victim and to realise I was doing the same thing (manipulation for self gain) from a different perspective.

You're channelling on being psychic in relation to manipulation was something I needed to hear. Thank you

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Can’t wait to hear the rest of this series 🩷

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I'm with AJ on this. This helped so much! Such great information shared! Thank you Francina.

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You have helped me feel so much less alone thank you you have no idea what a gift you are thank you

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I'm happy to hear it. Much appreciation!

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Francina, this was good. So if we’re not to assume and we pick up on something like a warning regarding a person through clairsentience, I’m wondering how we’re to navigate without proof? Thanks for sharing.

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You simply ask yourself what kind of boundary you'd like to set for yourself. You don't need someone to do you harm for you to decide to give them your absence. feeling "off" is enough reason to set a boundary with yourself.

Issues only come into play when you try to control someone else. Setting a boundary is about honoring your feelings. And if someone does as "Why don't you want to hang out/etc anymore?" It's an invitation to be honest. "I observed this and I didn't like it." That's enough. Let people feel how they feel. You honor your feelings. Let them sit with and honor their own.

If the guy making weird eye contact unsettles you, it's okay to leave. You don't have to justify or explain your discomfort. You also don't have to wait for him to do something weird to you. The feeling is enough.

All that to say, I also don't make it habit to gossip about my personal warning signs. Maybe the guy making weird eye contact is a perfectly fine human being but he hates dogs, and people who hate dogs annoy you and this is the universes way of avoiding unnecessary confrontation. We don't need to fantasize or rationalize why we feel a certain way (unless it's a reoccurring incident). We only need to honor ourself by investigating "Do I feel good or Bad about this person/situation/environment?" and then "What boundary am I setting with myself right now?"

Can you revisit this person/situation/environment when you have more clarity on that initial feeling? Of course! But focus on the moment "now", how you feel "now", and what you will do about that "now." Leave Tomorrow to tomorrow.

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